Thursday 16 February 2017

What New Year Goals Have I Ticked Off So Far? - Feb _ 2017


So new year came, new year went and with it came lots of changes in my life and a whole new set of goals. But how did the last ones play out?


The Goals I published end of last year were as follows:

* Learn to drive

* Buy a car

* First couples vacation / holiday

* First Chanel bag

* Old Hollywood theme dressing area

* Get a new sofa set

* Get a mini home gym going


Lets see how I have come along in a month:

Learning to drive & buying a car has not come into action yet in all honesty, Jan and Feb have been pretty choc-a-bloc. Although I do hope to start very soon as we have put some money away for the car.







Our first couples vacation is happening in May hopefully. Yes its a bit last moment but we have a lot of home commitments at the moment which are keeping our attention.


We decided on Barcelona, there will be F1 race there which we hope to catch while we are there which will be really exciting. The weather will be nice, not too hot though which is perfect as I get very stressed when overheated.
Im looking forward to checking out the beach bars, shopping and taking in the culture and history.




First Chanel bag was a materialistic dream... That became a reality.
I actually have two and one on order.
2.55 black regular and jumbo and one in beige as its more summerish
I love them and my bestie already has rights on them is I die.





The dressing table dream is still alive but we have undergone some... changes.
Its now a floor length mirror with hollywood lights that is like a cupboard and you can store your make up in there. Ive teamed it up with a fluffy lamb rug and a fancy footstall.
Its all on order so I cannot show you my exacts but I will post pictures under.






The new sofas are here! In the end we went with a black corner sofa and armchair.
They are everything we hoped for and guests are loving how comfy they are. There is much more space with them and its sproused up our living space.
I will put a couple of pictures on but saving it for the home tour I want to do once all decor is done.





Get a mini home gym going was my final goal. I am proud to say I have bought a treadmill. The catch is its still in the box and will remain so unitil we have decorated and have room for it.


In conclusion, I think I havent made bad progress. I gave myself a year and its been a month and a half. I wish I stuck to my goals every year like these ones, my life would be richer for it.

Uncompleted Blogmas

I was too unwell over Christmas to complete blogmas im afraid, but there is always this year!
Lets start again.

Thursday 8 December 2016

Blogmas 2016 - Day 8 - The Flu




So here I am ill with the flu.
No make up on or any fancy hair,
feeling quite sorry for myself.





Bundled up in my snuggly jumper on the sofa, 
surrounded by cushions and throw blankets.

Ive got a hot water bottle by my feet and the laptop rested on my lap.

I feel hot. I feel cold.
Ive had a headache for 2 days now that keeps coming back.

Im hydrated. Im thirsty.
All my limbs feel like they have been kicked in.

Just nibbled a baguette then changed my mind halfway through.
My throat feels terrible.
I think tonight I will have tomato soup I can sip for dinner.
Maybe some crisps if im feeling adventurous.
Not very nutrious but it all I want.

My otherhalf bundled me up in blankets last night and put Maleficient on for me
which was really cute.
I like being coddled when im unwell.

I am meant to be on a girls night out tomorrow but dont think I will make it.
It would have been my first in 4 months. Im pretty peeved to miss it.

I might watch some christmas films tonight and snuggle with a hot drink or some
cold and flu sachet drink things.
The only good thing is I should be well by Christmas.

Nothing much to report im afraid.

Kate xxx

Blogmas 2016 - Day 7 - Maybe next year... My goals for 2017!

Blogmas 2016
Day 7

"Maybe next year..."



Here I am again! 
Today I want to talk to you about my goals for next year - How I plan to achieve them and where I am in my life right now and the ripening age of almost 25 (quater life crisis anyone??!)


So, in 2017 I have plans... Well yes, Kate, thats the point of the post *rolls eyes*



To learn to drive and buy a car.


Something I wish I had done a long time ago but alas life has not been too kind.
Between loss, cancer and recovery I feel like Ive barely had time to catch my breath.
But next year I will be able to drive, and most likely buy a car.
My partner is the same, we just want a little run around and there isnt much point in spending a fortune at this time in our lives, what with University coming up.
I think just a Corsa or the like will do.



Go on our first holiday together.

7 years, not once been abroad together.
Same reasons as above, health.
But now we are looking to go on one or two holidays next year.
I think id like to go to Barcelona or Malta.



Buy my first proper Chanel bag.

Its a dream I know. 2.55 lambs skin would complete my life.
I know its a crazy amount to spend on a bag, I know they are ££££ but
I would adore one. I would treasure it forever (its timeless after all) and I would work very hard to have it. (No daddys fortune here im afraid)
Im not against ebaying one if I can get it checked for aunthenticity.
In the town where I live thought id be scared of taking it out I think - either that or everyone would think its fake and walk on by haha!
We shall have to see on this one.


Get a proper dressing table together complete with an "Old Hollywood" mirror.

You know the one, they one with the lights all round! Ugh thats the dream.
I have a pinterest board with all the bits I want for it and some stunning DIYS.
I want it to be my corner of heaven in my home.
Its not a huge dream but will cost monies ... Maybe a birthday gift?

Get a new sofa set

Seriously our cat has ruined ours. Ripped and torn. Its so bad I have to have a throw over at all times.
Id love a new set in the new year. Just from argos or whatever.



Get home gym area

Our appartment is small but we have a bit of room for my foldout treadmill and weights. id love to keep this trend going in my home. I want to make smoothies everymorning for after my workout and try and get my health in shape.



Blogmas 2016 - Day 6 - Winter style - plus size - Newlook

Blogmas day 6
Winter Style



I am not embaressed to say Im a chunky monkey.
My thyroid is pretty much non existant and im on so many fake hormones and pills from the cancers it makes it so so difficult to shift weight. Ive ordered a load of home gym equiptment for next year but I cannot imagine I will ever be tiny.
Ive made peace with this. Just about.

So shopping around for reasonable priced classy clothes can be a nightmare.
I mean, have you ever looked on some of these "cheap" clothing websites? Everything five pounds for example - even the models look bloody awful in too-short tshirts with a cat face on.
H&M have a tiny plus range and the clothes are not on par with the rest of the store.
Primark give it a good go, but some of the styles that suit slim women do not look even remotely right on podgy ones. Its just life.
What I hate about it is its like some stores want larger women to feel disgusting, unfashionable and unchic.

You know what store I love? Newlook.
Beautiful styles, fantastic prices and a plentiful range.

So lets have a look and see what they have on offer this season for us chunky girls.







I mean oh my word, its so feminine and floaty. 
It looks good quality and is in a beautiful year round shade.
The shoulder drapes with a cold shoulder look - which is perfect
for those of us hoping to hide our upper arms.
The price is £22.99

Id say its perfect for date nights, girls nights out and even christmas parties.
Its not the sort of neckline I would wear a necklace with, but a nice pair of earrings would jazz this right up.












This top is something I adore. Its like It cannot make its mind up between grey and lilac.
The shape is not the most elegant, but its perfect for a sunday look with bedhead hair and a pair of cute leggings/jeggings/jeans.

Again, its had the advantage of a cold shoulder.
£13.49 in the sale

Its perfect for sunday mornings, indoor movie nights, doing the food shop run or even just chilling in a coffee shop.
Its relaxed, casual but with a slouchy elegance about it.







This top is stunning and I will be going running to buy one too.
Us larger girls struggle to look as dainty as our smaller kin.
The lace on the top is placed so well to highlight th female curves. The fabric
is a beautiful delicate satin at will work with lumps or bumps to give
a smooth finish.

£17.99

I think this could work for so many occasions, but I am loving the idea of a new year party.
Team up with a beautiful bag and sparkle bracelet.
A little vinatge button up jacket wouldnt go to waste over this either.









I actually saw this on the sale rail and picked one up. I didnt love the look on the website if im honest. It didnt stand out to me at all.
However, the bottom is more floaty that you can imagine and it has the look of a very short dress/long top.
paired with leggings its a great night out outfit or even paired with a cute jacket, it becomes a classy daytime outfit too.

£8.99 in the sale

The price makes it a must have if im honest. Pair with accessories to get the most out of it. Can be used for multiple occasions.
I personally will be pairing with a jacket and wearing it on a night out.







I eyed this up in the shop and didnt buy it. This will haunt me until I do.
Its very furry irl and the colour is devine.

 £27.99
I dont think I need to go over how versitile this piece is and how "in" the style is at the moment.
Its beautiful.
School runs, errands, coffee shops, shopping - look great doing it all.






Dont underestimate it. Its classy colours and block colour will liven up your look and a few well placed accessories will put you in a league of your own.

I wore this even while ill with the flu and still looked pretty good!
Everyone needs a go-to jumper anyway.
The best part? £8.99 in the sale!




Going to leave it here today guys!
Blogmas day 6 - winter style


Blogmas 2016 - Day 5 - Little things I only do in the winter around the home

Blogmas day 5


This is just a little list about the things I do in the winter around my home
that I tend to avoid doing any other time of the year.
Some of you may find these a little odd.
Some may already do all of these.
& maybe some of you will want to try some?
Let me know!




Warming of the jarmies!

On the bottom of the bed, every evening, about half an hour before my partner comes home from work, I warm our PJs.


I take our folded PJs and place them either side of a heated hot water bottle. I then place the bundles on the bottom of our bed. So when its time to get changed we have warm cosy Pjs to climb into.

Now this could be done eaily over the heaters right? But there is something so simple and rustic about the hot water bottle method that I just love. Its a cute little tradition that I plan on keeping up as long as I can.

TIPS:
Afterwards, leave the hot water bottle down for kitty!





Boiling of the fruits

A homemade home airfreshener.
I have Yankee candles. I have fabreeze. I have over priced plug ins.
However I find THIS is how you get the smell of the festive season into your home.


Take a sauceplan and fill it halfway with water.
Throw in some left over sliced fruits, herbs and spices. Even pine and wine is great with this.
Now let it simmer for an hour or so. Your whole home with be warm and smell of the christmas sprit!

TIP:

No ingredients as above? Try simmering festive soaps and gels!
Lush christmas samples work great for this!





The Twinkle of the Home

I light every room. I have star lights this year (poundland find!) and I have draped them
over a stags head in the bedroom.
They make the cutest night lights ever.



Ive also draped them over our bathroom mirror.
It makes our whole bathroom look dewy and relaxing.

I leave the twinkle lights on almost all of the time, I dont turn them off. Same with battery candles.
I love my home having this magic warm glow when you walk into any given room.

Tip:
Use battery lights. They last ages and ages and are more versitile.
*Kodak batteries jumbo packs in poundland work fine for this*




The softening of the home

Cushions.
Normally in winter I put out fluffy or furry cushions.
This year I got these in poundland and they have taken
over my life.
I still cannot believe how nice they are for a pound,
feels like a joke.



Tip:
These cushions can go litterally anywhere.
Dining chairs, sofas, beds, seats...
But I love the idea of popping them in a little reading nook.
And they look super cute all bundled together.





So concludes Blogmas day 5
I may edit this with more at a later date.











Monday 5 December 2016

Blogmas 2016 - Day 4 - Winter bucket list!

Blogmas day 4
The Winter Bucket list

The Winter bucket List



Watch at least 5 Christmas Movies you have never seen
Make a Christmas decoration for the table or tree
Buy some of the Lush Christmas range and take long bubble baths every night

Do something nice for someone
Make homemade hot chocolates with heart mallows for all guests
Boil festive fruits and spices on the stove for a christmas home fragrance

Donate to an animal charity (blankets, money, pet food)
Have a fire going every evening, even if its artificial

Deliver gifts to neighbours

Pre Christmas clean

Bake